You’ll agree that most of the time, when we’re angry, we make decisions that hurt us more than they help. You end up making a problem worse instead of solving it. When you act out of anger, you are likely to hurt either the man or the wife. Such situations have always led to murder, so you should be very careful about how you handle them. Wait until your anger has died down or slowed down before making a decision....CONTINUE READING
Find out why they are both cheating.
Some people might be tempted to cheat, so they might not be doing it on purpose. When you find out what’s really going on, you’ll find that the person is sorry and regrets what happened. If you’re the one who’s cheating, try doing what you’re not doing. You never know, but maybe your wife will stop cheating on you if you give her everything she wants from other men.
If the man is married, his wife should be involved.
You can do this by asking the wife for her phone number and then calling her. Tell her the problem so you can solve it when you’re both there. When all four of you are at the scene, you will be able to figure out what caused the act and come up with a solution. You can be sure that none of you will ever be caught cheating if you do this right.
If your wife is to blame, you should make a smart choice.
If one partner is promiscuous, the Bible says that the couple should get a divorce. Only unfaithfulness can break up a couple that has been joined in holy matrimony. So, you will go to court, sign divorce papers, and talk about how you will take care of the kids. Find the right legal way to get a divorce instead of just kicking her out. You should also involve her people so that they don’t blame you at the end.
For the sake of the kids, you can forgive her.
You can choose to forgive to protect children from trauma or depression. As a Christian, you are asked to forgive many times, so one incident shouldn’t be enough to make your children suffer. When you and your partner raise a child in a way that pleases God, it is always a joy. Peers always ask a lot of questions to kids with only one parent. So, just like the Bible says, you can choose to forgive.
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