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Woman Sleeps With Best Friend’s Boyfriend — Then Asks Her To Be Their Baby’s Godmother
Before going into her story, she expressed that she is “angry, sad, devastated, horrified and can’t stop laughing at this complete stupidity.” The woman explained that she had been dating her boyfriend for four years and thought he would be the man she would marry. As for the friend who betrayed her, the writer said, “I thought my best friend since we were teens would be my maid of honor.”...CONTINUE READING
The day before posting her story, the woman’s so-called bestie had confessed to having an affair with the boyfriend for a year and a half. To justify her bad behavior, the best friend explained that the deception “was never supposed to happen like this.” The woman did not believe her friend’s logic, stating, “Honestly the smell of [expletive] coming out of her mouth made me dizzy.”
She claimed to feel “horribly guilty” and went on to ask the woman she betrayed to remain in her life and to be the Godmother to her baby. Taken aback by the request, the writer said, “She must have knocked her head on his tiny little [expletive] a few too many times and got brain damage.”
They say hindsight is 20/20 and the poster agrees that all of the signs were there
and she should have known about the deception. Looking back, she recalled all the times she would catch her boyfriend and her best friend “giving each other looks.” Then there were the unexpected visits to the home when the poster wasn’t there. Her untrustworthy friend claimed to be paying her a surprise visit.
The woman confirmed near the end of her post that both people who had done her wrong would “go down as my ex in my contacts.”
It’s one thing to be betrayed by a romantic partner, which is certainly hurtful — but being betrayed by a best friend hits different. According to certified coach and hypnotherapist Michele Molitor, CPCC, CHt, experiencing such acts of betrayal can even lead to a specific set of symptoms from what she calls “betrayal trauma,”
such as trust issues, hypervigilance and intrusive thoughts .
Molitor suggests seeking professional help after being betrayed as well as leaning into a support network, which is what this woman found on Reddit. After an outpouring of kind words, the Redditor updated her post to show gratitude for all the positive responses she had received.
One commenter said, “The heading of this post alone explains how weird this situation is. It’s again sad that you are the victim of this situation. But don’t worry this will pass and you will find better days ahead and better companion.”
Another person talked about his experience with a similar situation.
“Let yourself feel all these feelings [original poster],” they said. “Your post reminded me of how I handled my ex that got pregnant by my (ex) best friend of 20yrs. He wanted to stay friends. Even sent me an invite to be his best man. I was hurt but all I could do was laugh.” He mentioned how the story ended, adding “5 years later he messaged me crying, ‘you were right man, she cheated on me too.'”
The woman also acknowledged the people who found the situation funny, taking their laughter and jokes in stride and promising to “keep laughing through the pain.”
Ultimately, this woman showed resilience in the face of betrayal and the importance of removing toxic people from our lives .
NyRee Ausler is a writer from Seattle, Washington, and author of seven books. She covers lifestyle and entertainment & news, as well as navigating the workplace and social issues.
Entertainment
I’m having incredible sex with rich man I met years ago at school – but he’s about to get married
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M enjoying the hottest sex of my life with a man I knew from my secondary school days . . . the only problem is, he’s engaged to be married.Then I knew him at school I didn’t realise how rich his family was....CONTINUE READING
He lives in absolute luxury and has promised me I’ll never need to work again if we’re together.
But — and it’s a big but — he has a fiancée.
She is also from a wealthy background, but he insists he isn’t in love with her and doesn’t even fancy her.
He says he’s only staying with her as his parents and hers are close friends and he can’t bear to upset the two families.
I’m 23 and he’s 26. We met when I visited his house to design a new garden gym for him.
Walking up the driveway, I noticed the luxury cars parked there and was surprised when this man, who used to be friends with my older brother, opened the door.
At school I used to fantasise about him, so I was excited when he started flirting with me while I measured up.
After offering me a coffee, he casually leaned over and kissed me softly on the lips. It was incredible.
We were alone in his huge house and it took all my self- control to hold back from having sex with him right there on the kitchen counter.
He asked me to go around the next day “to check the measurements” and that time I ended up staying the night, although we didn’t get any sleep because we were so busy having sex.
The next morning he admitted he was engaged but said I’d really turned his head.
His fiancée works away for weeks at a time and he’s been really up front explaining he wants us to be lovers and says he’d set me up in a flat in the centre of town so we can party day and night.
I have a boyfriend and would finish with him but I don’t know if this fling will last.
Entertainment
My Father-in-Law Forced Me to Sleep with Him, Claiming He Was Providing for Me and My Child – Lady Seek Help
Judy has narrated how her father-in-law forced her to sleep with him after her husband took her to the village, and his father was the one providing for his wife and their child....CONTINUE READING
According to Judy, she was born into a family of four kids, and her mother died the day she finished her form four exam. She decided to go to Nairobi to look for a job. While there, she met a man in a hotel where she used to have her lunch, and they fell in love.
She claims that after a while, the man proposed to her, and they started living as husband and wife. After a while, she got pregnant, and when she gave birth, her husband got fired from his work, and things became very hard.
Her husband decided to take her to the village where the father-in-law was living alone in a big compound, but her husband didn’t have a house, so they started living in the same house. She says that her husband decided to go back to Nairobi after a while, and he left them there alone with the father-in-law.
Judy says that the father-in-law was the one providing everything in the house. One day, as they were having dinner, he asked Judy to let him do her husband’s duty in bed since he is the one providing and taking care of her needs. She was shocked and refused, but her father-in-law grabbed her by force. He didn’t manage to sleep with her; she screamed, and he was afraid.
Judy says that she called her husband, who came the next day. After she told him what had happened, he went to confront his father, but he changed the story and said it was her who wanted him to sleep with her. Her husband believed her father, and she was chased away with her three-month-old baby. That’s how her marriage ended.
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“Most African girls have that one guy that will always be knacking them even if they separated “ Ruger
“They have that soft spot for them and anytime he calls they show up , there is no relationship but they just find themselves knacking . But there is a serious man in the girl’s life and she won’t have time . She will always go to that Yoruba Demon“...CONTINUE READING
Dear girls why cheat on the man you love with the man you don’t love. ?
You who is reading this and have that guy that always knacks you , what’s the reason?
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